The Wedding Night Guide
Naked and Unashamed
Omolayo Ndubuisi
A Christian couple’s guide to covenant, intimacy, and the first night together, written to help engaged and newlywed couples walk into their wedding night informed, at ease, and free of shame.
There are no taboo topics. No awkward silence. Just honest, faith-rooted guidance for one of the most important nights of your marriage.
Why this book
Everyone shies away from the wedding night talk, but the silence ends here
Pre-marital counseling covers finances, communication, in-laws. Almost nobody sits couples down and prepares them for the night itself, so most couples walk in carrying fears they’ve never said out loud.
What’s inside
- Every fear, named and answered.
- From “will it hurt” to “what if I’m not good enough,” we address the questions couples are too embarrassed to ask out loud.
- A covenant mindset, not a performance mindset.
- Learn why shifting from “what am I getting” to “how can I serve” changes everything about how the night feels.
- Real understanding of how you’re both wired.
- A clear, biological and emotional breakdown of what makes your spouse tick, so you can love each other well from night one.
- Practical tools you’ll actually use.
- Conversation starters, a wedding night checklist, and a positions guide built specifically for newlywed couples.
All this and so much more.
Who wrote this
Omolayo Ndubuisi
Author of Naked and Unashamed
I'm Omolayo Ndubuisi, pastor and wife to Pastor Steve Ndubuisi, and mum to three boys.
I love helping couples build homes that are godly and genuinely happy, marriages full of grace, laughter, and real intimacy. This book comes straight from that passion, and from years of walking couples through the questions no one else will ask out loud.
This isn’t a clinical manual, and it isn’t Christian culture’s usual silence either. It’s the conversation you wish someone had with you.
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